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please help me. i dont know what to do

(26 Posts)
driftingapart Sun 01-May-05 17:48:10

nikcola Sun 01-May-05 17:50:11

whats wrong hun?

driftingapart Sun 01-May-05 17:55:19

i am scared

nikcola Sun 01-May-05 17:55:55

has he come back ? is there somone that could come and sit with you where do you live?

driftingapart Sun 01-May-05 17:57:12

no. i cant say

nikcola Sun 01-May-05 17:58:08

do you want to email me


nikkiandshireen@yahoo.co.uk

Louise1980 Sun 01-May-05 17:58:32

Hey. We are here when/if you feel ready to talk

tammybear Sun 01-May-05 17:59:23

are you scared of him doing something to you, or just his behaviour? i dont think the way he is treating you is acceptable. you shouldnt have to put up with that. its not fair on you

driftingapart Sun 01-May-05 17:59:52

i am scared of everything.

tammybear Sun 01-May-05 18:05:04

im trying to find you a helpline that maybe you could ring and talk to someone about your problems. the only one i can find at the moment is parentlineplus which is 0808 800 2222 and free. i have to go now, but thinking of you xxx

Louise1980 Sun 01-May-05 18:38:32

Do you want to talk?

Janos Sun 01-May-05 19:09:20

Just saw your thread in Relationships driftingapart and now this one. Just wanted to say I am thinking of you and offer a message of support.

motherofboys Tue 03-May-05 17:34:23

Is driftingapart there or has anyone heard from her today - was very worried after reading her threads

Yorkiegirl Tue 03-May-05 17:35:06

Message withdrawn

JoolsToo Tue 03-May-05 17:36:33

she's had her other thread deleted. She seems to quite like her dh at the mo!

motherofboys Tue 03-May-05 17:39:09

the ups and downs !?!

AngelCakeUmm Tue 03-May-05 19:17:44

I am totally confused by all this so driftingapart is back and ok now? Where did she go last nite?

Evesmama Tue 03-May-05 23:27:52

been searching for the other thread?????
how are you DA????

Evesmama Wed 04-May-05 11:46:49

why was the other one erased?

huggybear Wed 04-May-05 12:08:47

how are you DA?

is everything ok?

batters Wed 04-May-05 13:34:56

I don't think da will be coming back to this thread.

Evesmama Wed 04-May-05 13:45:03

why?

driftingapart Wed 04-May-05 16:43:22

hello. just wanted to let you know that I am ok. Well, as ok as I can be, still bleeding a bit so not sure if I've just had a period or what. Will go to the doctors on friday if it is no better. JoolsToo not sure what you mean by that though. We have hardly spoken since it all happened. he went to the doctors and the doc thinks he could be depressed to but he refuses to take ADs. I have told him that if he ever even touches me again when I say no, then I will leave, and that i could do it while he was at work. I have told him that IF we made a go of it then it has to be on my terms, and to take it at a pace to suit me. I have not decided what i want to do at the moment. he is sleeping on the sofa for now.

I had the other thread deleted because a lot of people where posting about who i really was and where i lived etc. anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for putting up with me and I am sorry for causing upset. speak to you all again sometime
xxxxxxxxxxx

Cadbury Wed 04-May-05 16:47:41

DA, good to hear from you. My pc has been playing up so I hadn't had a chance to chat with you. It sounds like you stood up for yourself. Well done. Thatwas very brave. I'm glad that the dr has said that something is wrong. Hopefully, your dh will think on what's going on and make some changes. Big hugs to you, from me. xxxxxx

motherofboys Thu 05-May-05 11:25:15

Yes - well done DA - it has not been an easy week for you. Remember we may not know you in r/l but we are all still thinking of you

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