Sorry but I'm just fed up. My dh is a lovely man and a great dad, but we haven't had sex for months and months and even before the last time, which I can't remember, it was once a month at the most......I just want to feel wanted, I do love him, but I'm totally embarrassed to try to make a move and I feel totally unsexy. I need him to make a move but he never does. We are both tired (kids still up in the night) and both have put on weight, me especially and I'm really tubby just now. I feel totally undesirable and him never coming near me makes me feel worse. We've turned into mates and our love life has totally died. Before kids we were probably pretty normal,whatever that is, but I've always felt I'd like more sex than him, or at least I always wanted him to make a move on me more often. He just keeps away from me and I know it's because I've gotten so fat. But I comfort eat and can't seem to get a grip on it and I don't get any confidence boosters from him. Please don't tell me to get us both drunk or to buy sexy underwear, I just feel too unself confident for that and as we've been together 12 years I've tried most things anyway.
Sorry just wanted to vent my feelings, I can't talk to my pals as they've all lost their extra weight and so their husbands probably fancy them the same as before.
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curtains · 22/04/2005 07:43
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