Had a lot of problems with my old HV - a real old dragon - told me when to put steven into his own room, when to wean him etc, and she was very critical - told me I wasn't an instinctive mother, told me I was lifting him off his playmat wrong etc. I got her down to brief monthly visits till the end of weaning, then she moved to another six months ago, and my new HV didn't get in touch with me - until today, wanting to do a home visit. I said no, I would bring s to clinic next week (next Monday)
i am bricking it now, feeling quite churned up about seeing the HV on Monday, as I am scared of more unwanted interference/criticism, and being forced into agreeing some more regular home visits.
could someone please tell me how to pull myself together, and just forget about it till Monday please!
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A really stupid sounding problem but absolutely terrified of seeing my HV next week
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mummytosteven · 13/04/2005 09:50
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