fed up!

[cazabela]

i feel so fed up today i have no friends and dp is always at work or busy i am stuck in doors and just really dont know what to do.

[vict17]

Hi. How old are your children? Are their any mother and toddler groups you could go to?

[Nemo1977]

aww hun i know the feeling. I am home again with ds which is lovely but dull iykwim. My dh is in work till 9 tonight and im sitting on here as ds is asleep...

[cazabela]

yes there are toddler groups but i just feel like an outcast as they all have their own groups! i dont know why i always find it hard to meet people. dds 2

[Nemo1977]

caz i really can sympathise hun as i am the same.i hate going into a new group where htey are all clicky or known each other for ages.
good luck and if u want an email buddy fele free to cat me

[BethAndHerBrood]

I know just how you feel, cazabela. My dh works away during the week, then is off playing golf, or watching footie on the t.v. at the weekend. We do have a lovely time when we are all together, but this isn't as often as I'd like. I don't have any friends in RL, moved to a new area 2 years ago, and don't speak to anyone, even now. Most days it's not too bad, but others I could scream with frustration!!! What I would give to have someone to invite round for coffee!!!

Anyway, chin up girl - worse things happen at sea!!!

[Ags]

Might be an idea to put a post up asking if anyone on the mumsnet site is in your area. Are you able to get out and about? Maybe you could get in touch with other mumsnetters in your area and perhaps arrange a get together. Sometimes it is easier to make friends on the net when you can be a bit more relaxed.

Clicks are horrible and make you feel even more like an outsider. It amazes me sometimes that people are so insensitive not to notice that someone needs a hand to be included. I really wish you well. Keep us posted how you get on.

[cazabela]

hi all i am feeling better today! have posted message in my area! hopefuly will get to meet other mums soon! anyway would still love to chat to people!!!!!!!!

[Caribbeanqueen]

Glad you are feeling a bit better cazabela. I know how hard it is to join mother and toddler groups, I found it really hard to start with.