A very, very dear friend of mine has recently been perscribed fluoxetine.
She is scared to go down this course of action. I haven't asked many questions, but she has children, has just split up with her husband (as far as I can make out, it was a very abusive relationship, I don't want to push her for details)& is now living with me & my children - she knows she can stay as long as she wants.
I have given her open access to the internet & pointed her in the direction of mumsnet.
Please can you tell me some positive experiences of taking fluoxetine/proxac. I feel that I am out of my depth. But she needs a lot of help.
She hasn't picked up the perscription. I don't want to push her, but I hear her crying in the night. I need to do something to help (apart from providing my mad/sometimes inappropriate sense of humour & lots of cups of tea).
If she is really opposed to the idea of Fluoxetine then could she investigate counselling? Maybe even relate (she can go on her own). From what you say her problems may be directly connected to all the upheaval she has recently experienced.
I found fluoxetine very very helpful in conjunction with lots of support and therapy for my depression. It is well worth a try. millions use it to help them get to a stage where they can start to help themselves again. DO not be afraid of it. Btw, mad inappropriate humour is always good in my book!
It does nOT cahnge your personality. It helps you with the physiological effects of depression and gives you a little lift so you can function. It doesn't take the pain away, but t helps you to be better able to deal with it. It doesn't make you happy either. It just helps lift the depressive symptoms.
Sandy - if she was once a happy person and has not had previous times of depression or mental stress then maybe it is really just her recent circumstances that have effected her badly? The medication may be a good way to get her back into a state of mind where she can see herself being happy again - as nicky has said. It doesn't have to be a long term thing.
I reckon prozac has saved the sanity of many mums and their families, and I think the benefits far outweigh the side effects. Your friend is going through a really really tough time (you sound a fab friend, she's very lucky) and fluoxetine will just take the edge off any panic/anxiety/depression. It doesn't take it away, but will enable her to function more like her old self and make decisions rationally. I have to say quite a few of my friends/colleagues are or have been on it in some form, and we all appear to be normal, together, working mums! I used to be embarrassed for taking it (for really bad PMT), till someone pointed out that if you had a problem with your thyroid, you'd happily take medication to balance it. Prozac does the same. I'm sure she will feel better with it. Good luck.