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Onwards and Upwards - the cvq/ns support and hot chocolate thread

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Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 20:33:42

Since we've nearly tipped the last one over the 1000 posts mark, here's the new thread for cvq and for her friends to help this lovely lady to keep on getting better.

Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 20:40:12

Ok, missus - you here? Come and talk.

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 20:43:19

im here.bit tearful but here
thankyou so much for doing this.feel a bit of a twat getting upset about a new thread but its like leaving all my thoughts behind.

can we get my music moved over here??

Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 20:45:53

Oh, hello! - umm - I guess we could copy and paste - it's just links after all. If you can tell me which links you want (just note the times of the posts) I'll do it. Not twattish at all to be sad about old thread - it's been a very emotional process for you.

Aarrgghh Sat 06-Sep-08 20:58:30

Hi CVQ - Have not spoken on your thread before but wanted to say i love the new positive thread title.

Onwards & Upwards is the way to go x

mellyonion Sat 06-Sep-08 21:00:18

knock knock knock......anyone hommmmeee????

hey ns....just popping onto your new thread....how you doing sweetie??

i feel like i've neglected you for the last few days...i'm sorry...i've been working, had loads on, and am sitting down for the first time today while my pasta is cooking..

i'll be back in the morning to catch up properly.

don't let one small incident spoil a great, productive, positive day...you were a brave girl today...you should be proud.

never feel ashamed of your actions..you have been through a terrible, terrible thing, and you are here, you are living, and you are slowly but surely moving onwards and upwards, growing and coping more and more each day...

you were a catepillar, you've been in your coccoon for a little while, keeping yourself closed away, safe from the world, but you know what.??? when you are ready, be it now, next week, next month or next year, you will emerge as a beautiful, bright, confident butterfly....and you will fly!

keep on top of the feelings when you feel good....remember them, and draw from them.

here's my song for you again....

uk.youtube.com/watch?v=hLB96GzlWio

xxxx

MatNanPlus Sat 06-Sep-08 21:07:58

<knock, knock>

saw the note on the door that said you were next door

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 21:13:24

ok seem to have a big list of needed songsblush

p10 30th aug 23.39.37
p11 31st aug 00.20.21
p11 31st aug 00.10.55
p12 08.38.14
p? 31st aug 01.00.35
p28 4th sept 01.35.28
p29 4th sept 10.18.10
p32 4th sept 01.24.09

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 21:14:27

hi everyone
thankyou for still being here x

MatNanPlus Sat 06-Sep-08 21:18:35

Pleasure Hun xx

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 21:19:05

just going to fill my flask up

Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 21:28:09

Reba McEntire
Viky Yohe - Mercy Seat
Amy Grant
Destiny's Child
Bill Withers
Bonnie Raitt
Coldplay

And one from me: here

Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 21:34:58

And one more. Not entirely apt, but I love the chorus, and I played it to death when dd1 died - it's making me weepy now! - made me feel like things would get better eventually.

MerlinsBeard Sat 06-Sep-08 21:36:30

why don't you bookmark the songs?

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 21:36:32

you are an angel.thankyou thank you thankyou!!!!now i know where to find them when i need to.

and habbibu.your song.wow
thankyou again x

Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 21:37:58

You are most welcome. The coldplay one took me back too!

MatNanPlus Sat 06-Sep-08 21:45:34

REBA - I'll Be

AMY GRANT - Carry You

SHERRY WALKER - Mercy Seat

AMY GRANT - Ask Me

BILL WITHERS - Lean On Me

DESTINY'S CHILD - I'm A Survivor

R.E.M - Everybody Hurts

BONNIE RAITT - Wounded Heart

COLD PLAY - Fix You

GUIDED MEDITATION

AMY GRANT - Carry You0

MatNanPlus Sat 06-Sep-08 21:46:27

SURVIVOR - Eye Of The Tiger

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 22:00:37

thank you to you aswell mnp.
i forgot about the meditation one!

MatNanPlus Sat 06-Sep-08 22:18:44

Pleasure.

I am off as not working tonight or tomorrow so off the zzzz land.

We see you at lunch time. xxx

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 22:24:33

ok.sleep well
am just sat listening to my songs
x

DisplacementActivity Sat 06-Sep-08 22:31:17

Message withdrawn

Habbibu Sat 06-Sep-08 22:44:38

Oh, lovely, I'm off to bed, and then dd and I are off down south in the morning. I'll try to check in before we go, otherwise I'll look back in at the weekend. I hope you have a good week - you are such a star, I know you can do this. x

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 22:46:40

thats a lovely song.the words felt quite powerful.am a little teary but thankyou x

needsupport Sat 06-Sep-08 22:49:00

thankyou habbibu.you have a good break and massive thankyou for supporting me and being here to listen x

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