I am feeling very low at the moment.
I feel like I have no life, no identity, and no energy to do anything about it. I feel scared of a lot of things.
I have a 2 year old daughter and a husband. We've been together since I was 16 and he was 22.
I have low self esteem issues and I've always been shy. I have an identical twin sister who I have always compared myself unfavourably to. I tried to take an overdose due to this when I was 15 and did a lot of self harming. I don't see her these days.
My marriage is not very good at the moment. We don't talk very much as I never feel I have anything to talk about (my life is a bit empty - no friends/hobbies/interests/enthusiasm). Our sex life is almost non-existant. It has been like this since before our daughter was born, well since we got married really. This has compounded my self esteem issues and I feel unwanted and rejected. Meanwhile my husband has felt guilty and pressured, and we both find it a difficult topic to talk about.
I'm starting university next month to try to get some sort of independence and identity. I'm scared that our relationship is getting worse because of my lack of enthusiasm for life. My husband doesnt see me as a fun person to be around and I dont blame him.
I just want to give up because it's so hard to change myself and my way of thinking. My husband doesnt deserve to be stuck with me, I'm really draining all the life from him - I see myself as a big lead weight around his shoulders.
I don't know what to do or what to think or feel anymore. I just want to run away sometimes as it's just too much.
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FedUpOfMyself · 06/09/2008 16:08
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