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Do you ever get cyclical days where you are just so tired you can't be bother to do anything, then feel fed up because you are bored?

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Bumperlicious Mon 01-Sep-08 13:00:56

I'm having one of those day. DH and I have a rare day off together and I always feel this pressure (my own) to "do something".

But the last few nights DD has woken up a few times and I haven't really caught up and feel really knackered, don't do well on tiredness.

The trouble is now I feel too tired and lethargic to do anything, yet at the same time so frustrated and bored. DH is being good and going to take DD out for a couple of hours, and I'm not sure what I am going to do. There are a few things that I want to or feel like I should do, read something "worthy", knitting, or just Do Something Creative, some exercise, or I am just going to feel like I've wasted the day.

Anyone else get this sort of cyclical frustrating days?

babyinacorner Mon 01-Sep-08 13:10:18

yes i'm having one now - feel like I can't be arsed to do anything but at the same time bored is a familiar feeling. Also lonely but don't want to actually see anybody else!

maidamess Mon 01-Sep-08 13:22:55

I had 5 days like this on the trot, while my 3 were at the in laws.

I tried not to feel I was 'wasting' the days, but to indulge the abject laziness I felt.

It was hard, I always had that inner voice telling me everything that needed doing in the house. I ignored that voice! And did bugger all. And felt renewed and rested because of it.

Bumperlicious Mon 01-Sep-08 14:04:18

Well DH has taken DD out for a couple of hours and I am watching Come Dine With Me and eating a homemade brownie! But I can't shake that feeling of doing something more worthwhile, only because I complain about not being able to do that sort of thing with DD around.

I think it has to do with a wider feeling of not achieving in my life, yet not feeling motivated enough to do anything about it, or really knowing what I want to be doing.

Glad it's not just me though (you know what I mean!).

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