I have a younger sister, who has many and various physical problems, and who, for these, has to take various very strong medications - she has also been battling with depression for many years, but seemed to be turning a corner.
This morning, at 6am, I had a phone call from her - she asked to speak to dh, rather than me, as she didn't want to worry me. I spoke to her myself in the end, and what she told me was this:
She was in A&E at the local (to her) hospital, as she'd taken an overdose of diazepan (sp?) - she'd done this because there had been a man banging on her door, and for some unknown reason, she'd opened the door without looking through the spy hole. The man had then barged in and demanded that she give him all her drugs out of the fridge - she drank the liquid d., as she thought it would be safer for her to take it than for him to give it to somebody else, who it might kill.
Her partner wasn't at home last night - he was dog-sitting, and when I got to the hospital, she was telling me that she thought that he was behind this attack.
When I spoke to her partner, he was incredibly confused and very worried about her, and told me that the neighbours had found her crying in the back garden of the block of flats where she lives, and that they had called the ambulance, but that there was nobody else to be seen.
However, details of what she's said are different to different people, and she lied to me about how much she'd had to drink, and she's been reticent about phoning the police to report the incident.
The details just don't add up - I believe that they're very real to her - could the combination of the medication she's on for pain management issues, and alcohol have produced some sort of hallucination?
She is adamant that this really happened to her, but there are just too many inconsistencies.
She's also trying to blame our mum - she laid a real guilt trip on mum when she got to the hospital, so much so that mum broke down on me afterwards. My dad will not believe that sis is in any way in the wrong - he has always looked on sis as somebody who is very hard done by.
Any hints and tips on how I can support sis, mum, and dad (and sis's partner) would be very much appreciated.
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needanamechangeforthisone · 25/07/2008 15:25
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