my dp had a rough childhood and is the type of man who has to be the provider(im a sahm)and wants to make evrything 'right' and continually looks on ways to improve our life. however since having dd most of our friends and family have deserted us, we had to downgrade our house and used most of the money to pay off the new mortgage so we wernt in debt, then dp took voluntary redundancy to help me with dd(ive got pdn. he went back to work in december and seems to really like this job, problem is, he told me last night that he feels like hes in groundhog day and that he comes home and just waits to go back to work, that he wants to spend more time with dd, but also has other stuff on his mind that he needs to do before bed, so his heads all over the place..i wont go into me and him as thats another story, we're more like lodgers than gf and bf been going out for almost 10 years
i told him that i think hes very depressed and he said yes..but that was it????how can i help him?, its unlikely he'll go to docs and i know he wont take ad's, we will never be able to get much time to ourselves to do things as we have very little help. he just doesnt seem interested in me or anything i do anymore and seems resentful of 'our' situation...im at the end of my tether and really need some advice?
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my dp........
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frequentmnetter · 20/01/2005 13:50
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