For a bit of background I have an awful relationship with my family dm and dsis wasn’t like that growing up but a few years ago dm decided to rewrite my teenage years to me and my dc I was a nightmare teen dropped out of college blah blah I really wasn’t and I finished college with a levels met my dh at 17 and bought our first house when I was 19 no I didn’t go to university which I do regret me and dh work hard pay our own bills live an ok comfortable life
My dsi 5 years older than me is now the golden child in dm eyes ironically dsi didn’t go to university either but did nurse training and has worked her way up the ladder. Dsi has always been bossy and controlling and a financial nightmare despite earning a decent wage payday loans house maxed constantly borrowing money off dm but she’s the golden apparently my dc should aspire to be like her have a flash car holidays etc that she can’t afford
They have both been very involved with my dc as we all live locally and we had a close relationship until a few years ago. I have now gone low contact with them
Had a few issues with dd during lockdown caught her self harming over her new transgender boyfriend who she described as controlling they argue everyday she can’t leave so self harming is the only way I voiced my concerns she left to live with dsi not heard much from her since and she is still with her boyfriend
I know there’s not much I can do to change the situation but today I feel tearful I’ve tried to be a good sister daughter mum etc and it feels like it’s all blown up in my face
So what are you tips to brighten your mood when you have a down day because I can’t sit here snivelling all day
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Feel broken and tearful today help me snap out of it
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Alfiemoon1 · 01/08/2020 13:31
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