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Mental health

To just give up

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Ghostlyglow · 24/05/2020 00:50

I'm done

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Am I being unreasonable?

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MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 24/05/2020 00:57

Done with what? Are you ok?

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Mumtolittletorchers · 24/05/2020 01:00

Are u ok

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gluteustothemaximus · 24/05/2020 01:00

Whatever it is, don't give up. There is always hope x

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Icanflyhigh · 24/05/2020 01:15

Never give up, what's made you feel this way right now?

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cakeandchampagne · 24/05/2020 01:18

Flowers What are you tired of dealing with?

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DaisyDaisyMae · 24/05/2020 01:24

Hugs xxx

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DaffodilsAreMyFav · 24/05/2020 01:25

Tell us what's going on Ghostly.

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Designerenvy · 24/05/2020 01:26

Don't give up. Are u ok ? It's ok not to be ok. Reach outFlowers

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JetSetGo · 24/05/2020 01:54

We are here for you. Lots of people are here for you.

Are you there?

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MarylandMayhem · 24/05/2020 01:58

You know people will ask what's wrong etc so why not just say it in your op?! Maybe yabu, maybe YANBU. How would we know if you're not going to even bother saying wtf your situation is?!

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Samtsirch · 24/05/2020 02:00

I wouldn’t give up just yet, there is always hope.

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slf3101 · 24/05/2020 02:09

I've literally never messaged on this before and have looked at stuff for help for around 3 years. Are you OK?? Please ask for help. People are here to help and I've always seen that.

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c0ffeeandcake · 24/05/2020 02:11

Yabu... there is nothing that can't be fixed. I promise

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Samtsirch · 24/05/2020 02:14

If you are in UK Samaritans freephone is 116 113

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Samtsirch · 24/05/2020 02:15

Sorry 116 123.

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Hmmmm88 · 24/05/2020 06:33

Op please don't give up. Are you ok? We're here for you ❤

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MichaelMumsnet · 24/05/2020 07:32

Hello OP, we are really sorry to hear you are feeling this way.
We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged up to us we usually add a link to our Mental Health resources. You can also go to the Samaritans website or email them on [email protected].

Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you will be able to take some comfort from your fellow posters, but as other MNers will tell you, it's really a good idea to seek real lifeL help and support as well.

We also like to remind everyone that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare.

We are going to move this thread to the Mental Health section shortly.

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Ghostlyglow · 24/05/2020 08:23

Thanks for responding, guess I'll just keep pretending I'm fine

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LadyGAgain · 24/05/2020 08:34

You don't have to pretend. It's ok to not be fine. However there is help available to bring you through your journey to positive mental health. Would you like to talk about what is bringing you down?

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Samtsirch · 24/05/2020 09:24

Nobody has asked you to pretend you are fine, that's the worst thing you can do, people have asked you to please not give up.

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Ghostlyglow · 24/05/2020 09:52

I want this thread deleted please

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Hmmmm88 · 24/05/2020 10:50

OP you are anonymous on here if you want to briefly say what is going on without to much detail one of us might be able to give you some good advice. Your not alone

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c0ffeeandcake · 24/05/2020 11:31

OP we are all here for you with open ears. Let us help x

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Ghostlyglow · 24/05/2020 11:35

I really wish I hadn't posted. I just need to get on with things and pull myself together. I'm genuinely touched and grateful for the responses on here though. Thank you so much all of you. If only people in real life were so caring and compassionate.

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Samtsirch · 24/05/2020 12:04

Some people can be, it's a question of finding them I suppose.
If you don't want to discuss further on here, please try to contact your GP or the Samaritans so that you can access whatever support you need.
I wish you all the best OP.

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