Hi, I’m a regular poster but first time on this board. Name changed for this.
My DH has a recently been to the doctors about his mental health and due to recent circumstances and incidents and how he he has opened to me, I believe him to have a mental health condition, as does he.
The Dr has dismissed him telling him he has a job, a relationship and a family so he has no reason to have a mental health issue, despite everything he told him.
I being purposefully vague and the diagnosis etc isn’t really an issue, but what has frustarted us, and made me feel upset for my DH, is that he’s basically being told that he has no right to feel the way he does as he is a functioning human being.
I think this approach is dangerous and I’m fuming. I thought there was supposed to be strong focus on men’s mental health at the moment, and now my DH has said he’s being told what he’s always been told by his parents is that he has no right to feel down, to self harm, to think how he does as he’s got a good life and there are others out there who don’t.
Do you think there’s any value in me contacting his GP? It’s worth noting he didn’t see his own GP, he saw a GO who is new at the practice.
I work in this field so I don’t take complaining lightly but at this time I feel like I need to.
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Mental health
Not happy with Dr advice
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sausagesaurus · 16/05/2018 12:50
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