After escaping severe family abuse, I was left with devastating panic and anxiety disorders, depression and severe anxiety. The thing which I credit with giving me the only stability that I have ever known living for years in an amazing, large, beautiful flat with a wonderful housing association that I largely credit for saving my mental health and life. I count it as a family member, it is the only stability that I have ever known.
I count it as the best thing that ever happened to me (even people with mortgages want a place like this) however, I have to leave because the university I attend is in another city and I am very academic (I got all As at GCSE) and absolutely cannot stay in non-graduate minimum wage jobs for the rest of my life. It’s driving me insane. I thought I would be able to do university with the commute and work to hang onto it but by university is in another city in which there are no Home swap properties (for the last 6 months and I needed to move now) and time-wise it doesn’t work in the second year.
I realize this may be a very stupid decision as I was homeless/living in refuges before then (I have no contact with my dad who abused me and my mum who passed away, so I am essentially giving up ALL my security.
However, this is the only way to continue with my university studies and hence my life.
I trust the landlord but I am so worried about giving up this security and going over to the private sector, especially with the way that the world is headed, my mental precariousness and life instability.
It is truly a beautiful property, but I can’t give up on my degree and future.
Anyone still think this is a crazy decision??
I have severe anxiety and depression and most private landlords will not take benefits should I ever have to claim them and obviously I have no family to fall back on... yet, I know I would be miserable if I defaulted on my course and I cannot afford to keep it either financially or time-wise (I'm starting to fail due to working and commuting on top of academic studies)/
It’s SUCH a difficult decision.
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Am I crazy to give up amazing social housing in this circumstance?
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Angelic89 · 02/12/2017 23:13
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