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FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:16:50

So here I am again, today has been awful and I have no way to get into my Facebook (not ignoring you who joined my group) I've finally been diagnosed with something that explains a lot that's going on.

Sorry for being vague but those of you who know who I am will know

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:19:06

I'm sorry. Does the diagnosis mean there's a way forward?

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:20:50

Possibly for me, not for other crap in my life. Today's been testing to say the least

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:21:57

Maybe the help for you will help you deal with crap. I'm sorry today has been hard. I think we were on a previous support thread together. Apologies if I've got the wrong person.

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:24:52

I was wristboundlaxtexbitch

Or something similar

My 8 year old threatened to slit her wrists this morning (if you know me I've only told two people this) it's thrown me

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:26:10

And no need to apologise. Never say sorry for being there for someone

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:26:40

I was on a thread with you. Sure I was. Then the conversation moved on and I didn't feel well enough to follow. Sorry.
Was it an actual thing she intended to do or a way to shock you or make you realise how bad she was feeling?
That's a truly shitty day by anyone's standards. flowers

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:28:35

She's had problems for a while but no one cares!!! It's bloody annoying and I feel sad for her whilst dealing with her!!!

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:30:26

Has she been assessed by school and forwarded for help? What's the modern acronym for CAMHS? I'm crap. Can't remember it at all!
You need some support too.

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:30:51

You possibly was I remember anxious and see she's not anxious anymore grin

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:31:43

Haha. I love that.

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:34:37

We were offered CAHMS when she was 2, unfortunately our area is now in the news as they no longer offer help.

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:35:30

School won't help, she's female and "coping"

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:35:51

Not even if referred through GP or school? What do school suggest?

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:36:33

FFS "coping" Poor kid. If she's making those kinds of comments she clearly isn't. They need to reassess.

FuckThis Mon 17-Jul-17 22:42:10

She's seen as the stubborn one in class. I've been asking for help for years now

Wolfiefan Mon 17-Jul-17 22:53:15

She needs a formal assessment. It's not just stubbornness is it? Talk to SENCO. Maybe GP worth a try too. Stubborn or PDA (if that's the right acronym. I'm rubbish at them!)

NolongerAnxiousCarer Tue 18-Jul-17 11:59:03

Hi, of course I remember you (((wrist))) so sorry you and your daughter are having such a tough time and that proffessional support is so hard to access for her. Was talking to CPN from DHs team about difficulties I'd had with crisis team a while back and he said he most offten heres about problems with CAMHS rather than adult services (DHs team often see children too due to age of onset with psychosis) because childrens services are so poor. Its absolutely appaling, if they would just invest in childrens mental health it could mean far fewer people needing help as an adult.

FuckThis Fri 21-Jul-17 22:40:33

I agree. I see a lot of younger me in her, that's what hurts. My dm didn't really want to know and laughed what I did off. Don't want to make that mistake sad

How is everyone else getting on ❤️

NolongerAnxiousCarer Sat 22-Jul-17 00:24:09

She's lucky she has you fighting her corner.

I'm good thank you, DH is up and down but generally stableish, I'm recovering well still.

FuckThis Mon 24-Jul-17 23:27:58

Do you ever feel like saying fuck you all I can do this myself

I actually can't but I have no help 😭

FuckThis Mon 24-Jul-17 23:32:38

I also am holding a major secret and next week is going to be hard (I have a big mouth) so what's meant to be a nice getaway is already full of oh fuck I need to shut up 🤐

NolongerAnxiousCarer Wed 26-Jul-17 21:00:00

My current standpoint is to say yes please to any help on offer. How are you?

WristBitch Fri 28-Jul-17 23:22:49

I managed to get sort of my name back!

Shit shit and more shit!!! I'm fed up of people expecting me to be super woman angry

WristBitch Fri 28-Jul-17 23:26:14

I might majorly out myself here, but we had a cancelled hospital appointment and a very sick dog today sad

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