Any helpful comments or advice would be very kind! A friend I have known for nearly 60 years - primary school onwards - has suffered severe mental illness most of her adult life. The diagnosis is schizophrenia.
She has been sectioned many times, and this time was in one hospital for two months, discharged because of funding reasons when she was still clearly very unwell, and sectioned again to another hospital, even further from her home, four days later.
Her next of kin are her mother, aged over 90, and her older sister, who both live over three hours journey from her current location. I have no contact details for them, nor have I seen either of them since the early 70s. I am in touch with one man who is being a very good friend to her; he drove two hours to see her recently but she refused to see him. He says she is now refusing medication. She phoned me yesterday complaining at length about the hospital, staff, food, everything; she has persistent delusions and paranoia. Her male friend says this hospital (private) is utterly grim, and she is in the top security ward.
I am just so sad and worried for her, this is a really long time for her to be so ill, and I don't see how she's going to get better. Of course the staff won't discuss anything with me, and I understand the rules about confidentiality, but it's so hard and frustrating not getting any professional views. I also think there's physical care she needs that she's not getting, but I can't take up any complaints or requests on her behalf.
I'm aiming to visit her on Monday and hope she will talk to me, although being with her is obviously hard work.
Has anyone had experience of this? Is there anything I can do that would be helpful?
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So worried about friend who has schizophrenia
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Bloodybridget · 27/04/2017 18:01
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