Not sure how to tackle this. I have a friend I met when I moved to the area. She can be lovely, we have some interests in common despite being in different places in our lives and we have always got on.
She had a minor breakdown a few years back and had CBT and is on antidepressants. She lives alone and works from home a lot. So I try and spend time with her when I can.
I'm finding it hard to spend time with her, as she seems to thrive on talking about negative things - either things that are bugging her now or going back to relive old incidents. She's drifted apart from our mutual friends and doesn't want to meet up with them. I end up getting drawn into being negative when I'm with her and I find it really draining.
I think her current situation is not working for her - she had been fixated on buying her own place as a way to help her, but now she's moved, she's now unhappy with her new neighbours and is clearly still low.
Does anyone have any tips to help support her better? I want to help, but I'm finding it hard work to not just get into conversations about bad things in her life and bad things that have happened to other people she knows
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How can I be a better friend to her?
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toooldforpigtails · 07/04/2017 07:33
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