Hi,
looking for a bit of advice from some mums on here, first time on this site, I have a son that will be seven next month (20th may).
I'm having a very difficult time with him at the moment, i know children will be children, and they will have their moments like they all do, but my son's temper tantrums are constent, I try to reason with him and reward him when he IS good (which isn't often) I've been to various doctors on and off for the last few years with him about his tantrums, he is more than energetic (he is like twins mushed into one body). He just doesn't want to listen to a word I say and thinks its histerical when I disiplin him, when he steps out of line - I take his toys away and all his luxuries like having his programmes and his tablet to play on, but it doesn't make a blind bit of difference.
He's hit out at school a few times (teacher and students). When I tell him that he needs to help with house work and do his homework when I tell him - he goes into major melt down mode and starts ripping things and hitting me.
When I have been to the doctors about this - they tell me this is normal. There are plenty of children in the area at his age and they don't act like this on a daily basis, actually its very rare to see the other children in my area at his age act like this, a lot of the children round my area do take a telling, my son just thinks it's histerical when he gets a telling, I'm at my wits end.
Sometimes I feel that I'm too hard on him - but I keep thinking that it's not always good enough as he just keeps ... um - shall we say - re-offending (hahaha).
I've asked him if he knows why he acts the way he does and says he doesn't know - he just acts like that, like acting on impulse.
Can anyone offer any advise about what I could do try and encourage my son to be like an angel (again).
(P.S - he does get nice things like holidays and days away - only when he deserves it)
Thanks in advance
from a very frustrated mummy
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user1491328335 · 04/04/2017 19:15
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