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I am falling apart

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Aveiam Fri 24-Feb-17 23:17:05

I can't calm down and I have the worst thoughts, I am actually just falling apart and I have no one literally no one to help me, I don't know why to do

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:18:30

Hello Aveiam I have posted on your threads before. Has something happened?

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:19:23

I don't want to patronise you, but can you take some deep breaths?

chatnanny Fri 24-Feb-17 23:19:53

Please ring the Samaratins on 116 113 as you sound desperate. Also vent here and keep venting. You are not alone.

Aveiam Fri 24-Feb-17 23:20:49

He's back and he's hurt me. I don't know what to do and I feel sick and desperate so so desperate

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:23:49

Is calling the police an option? Do you want some links to organisations that can help you

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:25:39

women aid

MiddleClassProblem Fri 24-Feb-17 23:29:29

I remember you. We haven't spoken for a long time but you've been in my thoughts. Please call the police. Please call women's aid too when you can x

Aveiam Fri 24-Feb-17 23:31:03

I feel sick I'm stuck it's going to happen again and again and again I can't cope with it I don't know what to do. Women's aid are too busy so they can't pick up and I never know when he's back so I can't let them call me back

MiddleClassProblem Fri 24-Feb-17 23:37:25

Can you get put the property?

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:39:55

Oh Ave please call the police. Let someone help you. You do not deserve this. Has he gone?

beansbananas Fri 24-Feb-17 23:44:11

I'm sorry I don't know the background to this... but I couldn't ignore this post. Are you alone now?

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:47:06

I also don't know the background to this incident but I have posted on Aveiams threads when she has needed help with mental health issues.
I wish I could help

Aveiam Fri 24-Feb-17 23:53:23

He's gone out but I know he will know where I am if I leave he's got complete control over me it'd like he's in my head I am going crazy

fruitbats Fri 24-Feb-17 23:56:19

What can I do to help?

beansbananas Sat 25-Feb-17 00:02:30

You mention that he hurt you. Do you need to go to hospital? Are you in pain physically? Where has he gone?

Aveiam Sat 25-Feb-17 00:02:35

I don't know o don't know anything I just need this to stop I can't bare it

MiddleClassProblem Sat 25-Feb-17 00:02:43

Did he hurt you today?
Call the police
Do you have a key for the door that you can put in your side so he can't get in?

Aveiam Sat 25-Feb-17 00:03:15

I'm in a lot of pain I think I should call someone to help maybe I think the ambulance

MiddleClassProblem Sat 25-Feb-17 00:04:11

Yes, do that x

beansbananas Sat 25-Feb-17 00:04:22

Yes that sounds like a good plan. Please call for an ambulance. They will be able to help and keep you safe.

fruitbats Sat 25-Feb-17 00:05:02

Please Ave if you are physically hurt, ring for an ambulance. Ring now and we will wait with you till it arrives

beansbananas Sat 25-Feb-17 00:05:53

Let us know once you have spoken to them and they have confirmed they are on the way.

Joto369 Sat 25-Feb-17 00:06:28

Please ring as the others have said - you have support here.

AnxiousMunchkin Sat 25-Feb-17 00:11:25

Hi Aveiam, I remember you too. It sounds like you're posting here tonight because you feel you want some help...and you might have found your own answer in ringing for an ambulance. We're here you can keep posting as you wait if you need flowers

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