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feeling desperate

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cuddly61 Wed 15-Feb-17 22:32:20

i suffer from mental illness which my vile neighbours are aware of. i dare not even go into detail on here what they have done ,but basically a court case against them is still ongoing. but their latest intimadation tactic is to open their front door if they hear me going out or coming back home and just stand there smoking. ok some folk dont like to smoke in their houses but this is nearly everytime i go out or come home. tonight they took it to another level. i came home in my car ,their front door opened and first the wife actually stood there facing my way staring at me then she went in and the husband came out and was doing the same. i got my mobile quick while i was still sat in my car to film him staring but i guess he saw what i was about to do and crouched down.
its very unnerving i'm scared to even go out my own front door. i know they are doing it on purpose just to get at me.
but what can i do? i know some would say smile and wave but i havent the confidence to do that.
their front door is only about 20ft from my front door . so there is no way i can come and go without this intimadating behaviour from them.
i'm dreading spring when i have to do my front garden.
even my visitors have noticed them doing this.
the other day a friend was chatting to me outside i noticed the husband was lurking outside making out he was doing something but it was quite clear he was just making out he was because as soon as my friend went he went back inside.
this is not nosey neighbours . i just dont know what to do. its difficult to ignore someone making it obvious they are staring at you.

Itisnoteasybeingdifferent Thu 16-Feb-17 05:11:41

What sad people they are.
They have so little love in their lives they have nothing better to do than to watch you come and go. It must be the height of their day.

cuddly61 Thu 16-Feb-17 11:01:02

yes they are sad vile people. they should grow up . but they are very jealous of people aswell. that what fuels this kind of behaviour.

Itisnoteasybeingdifferent Thu 16-Feb-17 14:10:58

So you know they are sad and vile.
The next step it confidence to believe in your own understanding.
Are they actually threatening you in any way?
Or is it just looking at you like a heard of cows looks at anyone who walks across the field?

cuddly61 Thu 16-Feb-17 15:40:51

they made it quite obvious they was staring at me ,but since posting i got some legal advice and staring is one of the things classed as intimidation of a witness ,as i'm a witness in a ongoing court case against him

Itisnoteasybeingdifferent Fri 17-Feb-17 15:45:28

Ah,,
You didn't explain that..
Next time go out with the camera ready and filming as you walk out the door. Or better still set up a discrete camera somewhere it can film them where they usually stand... Then go out the door..

Do remember to smile sweetly

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