So my sons dad has issues. He's an okay father apart from his anger problems. He's always shouting and angry. Last year sometime he started getting nasty if I pissed him off. Saying things like I just wish you'd fuck off and die, drop dead you cunt, you look like a man, you're a retard and you don't even love our son. I thought I could stick around as if I leave his dad I'd be moving 300 miles away to where I'm originally from. I just don't want my son growing up without a father.
I'm starting to think now that it's really affecting my son. When his dad is home (he works away and or really long hours) my son plays up. He doesn't want to go to sleep and is constantly trying to get attention. His dad has no qualms about shouting and being angry in front of our son. He accuses me of trying to cheat on him and I'm basically confined to our house. I don't drive and can't really have friends around as he gets really annoyed. I feel so stuck here. I've never had any help or a break from my son. . I said to his dad a few weeks ago that I'm just going out by myself for a quiet drink for a few hours as I just needed a break, well he didn't like that at all.
He just has so much resentment towards me. And now I'm pregnant again and n I have zero energy and he's on my case in me lazy and a bad mum. Am I wrong in thinking that this isnt normal? Im getting really depressed and feeling so hopeless but now I'm wondering if I'm as bad as he thinks I am and that he has a reason to be like this to me.
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Mental health
Sons father making me feel unstable
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user1485963128 · 01/02/2017 15:48
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