I had a fantastic day yesterday with DP wandering around one of the Christmas markets, seeing all the Christmas nights and had a wonderful dinner in one of our favourite pubs. After dinner I started to feel anxious and started shaking. We were going to a concert in the evening and had a bit of time to kill so went to a cafe for a cup of tea to try and calm down. I wasn't too bad in the cafe so thought I'd be okay at the concert. We joined the queue to get into the venue and I started shaking again and then when we sat down inside and got surrounded by people I started panicking. DP convinced me to move further back where there was more space. Then when the concert started I totally panicked and ended up in a full blow panic attack. It was horrible, I couldn't breathe, my face started tingling and I started crying my eyes out. Somehow DP managed to get me into the foyer and by the time I'd calmed down we'd missed half of the concert. I don't remember much of it, just DP talking to me the whole time (though I couldn't really hear what he was saying) and sitting in front of me holding my hand. By the time I calmed down I just wanted to hug him and be at home. We did then leave but I felt so bad and like I'd ruined his evening. We were both so looking forward to going to the concert and we barely got to see any of it.
I haven't been that bad in so long and I've never had a panic attack in public before. I'm frustrated with myself for missing the concert and scared it'll happen again next time I go out. On the way home I had to close my eyes because looking at all the motorway traffic started to make me feel panicky again. DP was absolutely amazing and I really appreciate the way he handled it, for calming me down and for being genuinely okay with going home early. I feel really conflicted this morning. I feel glad to have such a lovely DP which is a reassuring thought but then there's the part of me that's panicking about going shopping. I feel my thoughts are all over the place and often when I have a panic attack at home it causes my mental health to spiral as I'm so scared of having another one. But this time is even worse as it happened in front of so many people and it's so embarrassing!
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Last night was awful & I had a panic attack outside :(
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sadandanxious · 19/11/2016 10:08
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