I am up at 5 in the morning talking to a friend on facebook who could be depressed and IMO needs support
Scenario is that she cares for her husband who is 61 with early onset dementia, she has a total mistrust of medical professionals and given some of the problems she has had to face because of them I cant say I blame her.
She was first visited by SS when the District Nurse who comes once a week reported her for having a 'dirty' house, now considering 2 days before the visit my friend broke 2 ribs and could hardly move let alone scrub the fucking kitchen floor that report was a tad out of order, especially coming from a nurse who knew my friend had broken ribs and presumably had enough medical training to know how having broken ribs would affect a persons mobility and day to day activities - but that's another story
Anyway Social services are involved now so she has to deal with them
I have been on facebook with her for most of the night as she is weepy and cant sleep, I think Christmas is the catalyst because she has no support from her family and she knows on Christmas day she will be just staring at 4 walls on and not being able to celebrate ( I would go to hers but her DH gets scared and anxious when strangers are in the house so it would just means more stress for her).
I have suggested she sees her GP, not necessarily for medication but just a chat to see how she can be helped, but my friend is petrified that if she seeks help her GP will inform SS or SS will be able to access her medical records and find out anyway and remove her husband from her care.
She is usually a coping upbeat person despite her difficult circumstances so her mood at the moment could be temporary but it also could the start of a bigger problem
Does anyone know the procedure, would her GP inform SS, can SS get her medical records and if they did would having depression mean that she would be declared unfit to care for her husband
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Can Social workers get access to a carers medical records.
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Oldsu · 15/11/2016 05:57
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