Just after some other perspectives, as I've realised I've just been ploughing along without talking about this issue with anyone who might have experience!
My partner has PTSD after a one-off incident. I won't give details for anonymity purposes. His treatment is finally the right one and is working, but it's been a long road of 18 months.
My question is, am I being unreasonable for feeling "fatigue" of the whole thing? I feel - and am - supportive, understanding, tolerant; yet angry with him and resentful at the same time at how it has affected us all. Part of his treatment is to examine his own thought processes and learn to deal with them better. I understand this. Yet I feel as if we hear an awful lot about how he feels and not much about how I feel. We are able to talk about this and he is understanding of my position, but not able to give me the support he used to. I feel a bit neglected I guess.
I suppose I feel that the man I could always turn to and always be strong no matter what was thrown at us, has let me down (I know this sounds selfish and irrational). He was infallible and now he's not. I don't know if he will ever be the same again.
Sorry for the ramble. Can anyone enlighten me on a) what he's going through or b) how they coped as a supporter of someone with PTSD? Because I'm only human too
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imheretoo · 29/10/2016 19:34
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