I'm going to see my GP in 10 days and want to discuss my mental health.
History of treatment for depression, more recently also for anxiety. Treatment has been ADs (currently citalopram 20mg) and CBT (for a year, leading up to divorce/job change) and counselling. Talking therapies helped a bit but it's such hard work to put into daily life. I don't think it really works for me. I think it's chemical.
Circumstances have always been present that could cause this - alcoholic parent, illness, divorce/single parenting etc.
However, I really don't think it's that. I think I'm wired wrongly. ADs don't really help; they just take the edge off, keep me from falling into a black whole of suicidal despair (for the record, I would never kill myself; I have DCs and family that would be devastated. But if not for them...) But even when oh higher doses (30-40mg) I still feel wrong.
Ive always suffered with social anxiety and been a deep thinker. Saw a psychologist at 17 who told me to stop reading philosophy books
I think bipolar is close, but I don't have many 'highs'. I do identify with it though, periods of manic inspiration and creativity. But I'm too tired/down most of the time to act on them. I think BPD is closer maybe.
Lately, due to a very ill DF and imminent change of career/home life, anxiety has been the overriding symptom. My driving is affected. I go into a shock-like state on certain roads. Blood drains from all my extremities and I feel I'm going faint. I had to ditch the car the other day. Luckily I was in convoy with DP at the time.
I feel detached, behind glass.
One incident - the first- of the driving issue, I wondered afterwards if I was actually dead. I wondered if DCs and I had all died when I fainted on the dual carriageway and now I am in another world. I know that's madness. But now each time I travel on the same stretch of road, I feel odd. Often I wonder if I'm still here or not.
Oh my word. Writing it all down is scary.
Thanks if you read this far. Anyone been through similar and found anything that works?
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Bipolar, BPD, depression or anxiety? Or all of the above?
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OnceMoreIntoTheBleach · 28/10/2016 16:04
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