On holiday, in Croatia. Hot, hotel ok not really what I was expecting, but you don't always get it right. Not a very pretty part of the country - must be missing something as everyone has raved about Croatia this year.
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Had PND, boys now 9, many years depression free since then, although always challenging PMT. Until I took up running, that sorted it. Marvellous, very evangelical about it (hollow laugh). Got injured, despite daily Pilates to hold me together (am hypermobile). Physio not much good, told me to do all the things I am already doing, £200. No problem, will take the summer off running and start open water swimming - always wanted to do it and loved it. Cold water plus outside equals plenty of depression busting endorphins - better than running almost. Also got a bonus at work and bought a bike - really ebjoyed it. Thought about doing a trathalon next year if I could get over the running injury.
Disaster - bulging disc in my neck - caused by 3 weeks working on a laptop and exacerbated by swimmimg. Back to Physio - no swimming, no cycling (because of 'chin forward' position). 2-3 weeks she said it would take to get better. 6 weeks later - pain is less but still numb in hand and my right arm feels weak.
Utter crash in my mental health. Feel like I will never do exercise that works again. Two people last week told me they had the same problem with their necks and just have to live with it. This feels pathetic but someone has removed my medication. Had PMT last week, awful. But worse, it's stayed. This is how I felt with PND. Utterly hopeless. In hotel room, crying. DH and boys swimmimg. I can't swim - well, of course I could wallow about. But I'm so pathetic I can't do it. I can't be happy. What a waste of space. It's a holiday, I'm spoiling I it for everyone by being pathetic. DH not sympathetic, and I can't talk to him, he doesn't do emotions. Can't talk to anyone in RL. My friends have real problems, not pathetic ones like this. They'd rightly think I was ridiculous. And I'm in Croatia. I want to be at home. I want to be able to look after my mental health using what works. But I can't. And it isn't getting better. Back to work next week, which makes my neck worse even though have ditched the laptop and set desk up perfectly. Christ this is pathetic. Always told I was a drama queen growing up and I am. How can I teach my children to be resilient if this is the example I set? Just want to write it down. DH asks what's wrong. I say nothing's wrong. Because nothing is, really. Just lack of perspective and I'm fucking useless.
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