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attachment issues as an adult

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AprilSkies44 Wed 17-Aug-16 00:29:32

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Mummyof02 Sat 20-Aug-16 05:33:25

Hi aprilskies just read your post and it is true that in life all you can do is move forward it's a shame it didn't work out with your husband but you can't help how you feel and that's only natural. If your not physically attracted to him you can't help that just the same as you can't help how you feel if your not attracted to your new partners personality. However the difference is your husband is a good person someone that seems to generally care about you from what you have mentioned of him but your new partner sounds like a headache and he's just pulling you backwards, you need to put yourself first and ditch the new partner as I'm sure you could do so much better and you deserve it too. And as for how you feel mentally regarding the attachment issues perhaps see either a counsellor again or a psychiatrist and express to them how you feel, they likely to be more helpful than you think and they'll be able to direct you to the next step in getting back on your feet at this time in your life, hope this helpsflowers

AprilSkies44 Sat 20-Aug-16 15:34:19

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