I'll try to make this short. DD started self harming a year ago and took a couple of tiny overdoses. CAMHS assessed and refused any helpful intervention but offered inaccessible group therapy and said take it or leave it, nothing else.
I had dd referred to a consultant psychiatrist who recommended CBT which dd didn't connect with. Started fluoxetine December and well until the last few weeks. This is exam related as it was last year. She had a bit of a melt down on Wednesday but seemed fine Thursday. Evidently she took some cough medicine and anti-histamine Thursday lunchtime, seemed as right as rain on Thursday evening. She rang a helpline on Friday and they advised her to get checked out.
She presents to a&e adults who referred her to paeds who phoned me 3.5 hours later. Her bloods were fine. They called ss and said she'd be admitted overnight with a 1:1 nurse and CAMHS would do an emergency assessment the next morning.
I said if she needs an assessment it needed doing urgently tonight and she wanted to go home. She affirmed she wanted to go home. I noted that camhs hadn't given a toss previously and she had her own psychiatrist and we would be leaving. Then they could manage to get mh involved then and I gave them an hour. MH nurse turns up after 45 mins and spoke to dd and to me. I asked when we cd fo. Then she had to call CAMHS and I said fine providing I cd speak to them too. She said fine. 45 mins passed still no info. She was then on phone to CAMHS and I was told I couldn't speak to them. Lies and poor communication.
Told sister we would be leaving in ten minutes and was told we couldn't and I was interfering with my daughter's well being and creating a safeguarding issue and if we left they would call the police. They'd had three hours to raise that sort of comment and I'd asked several times what prevented us from leaving and didn't get an answer. The original Dr said they'd call ss if we left and I asked on what basis and didn't get an answer. I asked on what basis police would be called and was ignored. They all had another conflab and dd was allowed to leave about an hour later. Original Dr said if there was a way to get her assessed and home that was best for her and the NHS. But he didn't know he could sort an emergency assessment until I insisted and said it was a good thing.
She is not psychotic, wanted to leave and is loved and well cared for. She went to hosp thinking she'd get checks for the pills she took and be home by teatime.
On leaving the sister said you appreciate she was asked if she'd be willing to stay overnight and she said yes. I asked if she had been given the opportunity to say she didn't want to and there was awkward foot shifting amongst the three staff with us and dd affirmed it hadn't been out like that.
If there was no money to help her a year ago why is there money now for an unnecessary overnight stay, limited information, was told it was protocol and policy so I asked for the protocol and policy and was ignores.
DD was competent, there was no talk of the MH Act, she wanted to come home. So why the lack of clarity and por communication. What were/are her rights?
I'm waiting a call from CAMHS, will make an apt with her own psych and speak to GP this week. The response felt disproportionate and disrespectful and poorly communicated.
What exactly are one's rights in those circumstances. DD is obviously my priority and if this was a cry for help she'll get it but how staying overnight would have helped because CAMHS only work9-5 I fail to comprehend. She was not a suicide risk.
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advice about 17 year old's rights please
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RipeningApples · 11/06/2016 06:53
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