Hi, im fairly new on here, but desperatly need help.
Im no good at talking to strangers face to face & dont know what to do.
My 16yr old DD has an ongoing case against her ex, he was her first real boyfriend & 3 months after they seperated, she told me the reason why, he had forced her sexually & would not stop, even though she asked him to. There is now a case ongoing.
As well as dealing with her problems, its brought all mine back from 20 years ago, I never told anyone, and have lived with this.
I hadnt realised how much it had affected me until I wrote into "this morning" and got a lovely reply from denise robertson.
I have been under the mental health team - but no one seams to understand me or know what is wrong, so I was discharged; either bipolar or personality disorder!!
Anyway, this is now interfering with my relationship, and I just cant seem to be myself with being intimate, im ok if I have had a drink ( i dont drink often) but I just dont seem to be able to snap out of the "low" I am in.
I pretend I am ok, I try my hardest to continue with cuddles & kisses, but I am not, and push people away & dont talk, I can't, its my biggest downfall...
The police want me to report what happened to me, but I just dont think I can cope mentally.
I dont come on often, so please excuse my slow response.
Any advise would be appreciated x
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My DD attack has brought mine flooding back..
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QuietAngel81 · 10/06/2016 07:13
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