If i feel im heading for a breakdown, is this concerning enough to be able to get an emergency doctor appointment? (You dont need to read the rest. This question is my main thing. Rest is me just going on and on)
I am so fed up. For the past two years i have had an enormous amount of stress, continuously. Some reoccuring and ongoing, other things that have just seemed to come and smack me when i feel i am just getting my head together and regaining some strength.
I dont feel i have any strength anymore and i am showing massive signs of depression. Anxiety has escalated and is not coming down. My mood is so unpredictable, i dont know how i am going to react to what people say do. One minute i might be fine with something, and the next second the same thing might fill me with rage.
I hate how i am at the minute but i really dont feel i have any control over my own emotions at the minute. The way i am at the minute is so far from the person i really am!
I have dealt with some massive personal issues. An extreme manipulative relationship (which this board actually helped me get out of) - months of therapy for that. He took my child and kept him from me. I think i suffered some form of ptsd due to that. I got him back. 2 months later my mother was diagnosed with incurable cancer. A few months later we get told it had spread. My dad then was diagnosed with lung cancer. Thankfully he is in remission now. Every few months there after my mother was given news of where else the cancer had spread to. During all of this i am still dealing with the massive personal issue which i dont want to talk about. My older sons dad (different from emotional abuser), who was physically abusive comes on the scene. Children services advice me to allow contact. I reluctantly do and then they advice i stop....otherwise if i continued it would appear i was unable to safeguard my child. An emotional rollercoaster with my son, obviously. I hsve generalised anxiety disorder anyway, so trying to keep on top of that during everything has been emotionally and physically draining.
I have 3 children who are currently pushing boundaries. I am unsure if they are actually pushing them due to picking up on me being low, or if im over thinking their behaviour and escalating it all due to anxiety.
I have little support, due to my parents illness. I find i try to support them, obviously.
I started working, thinking it would do me the world of good. I absolutely love it there. It is only 2 hours per day 5 days a week. I believe this hss been my tipping point.
As much as i love it, i think it is just one little extra thing too much. I do not want to quit because 2 years ago...there was no way on this earth id of been able to do what i am doing now. I have worked so hard to get to this point and i dont want to give up.
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OnTheEdgeToday · 05/11/2015 20:31
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