I've had depression and anxiety for many years now, been on various ADs, tried CBT but generally been left to get on with it. Took myself off ADs a couple of years ago and moved from England to Glasgow in the hope that a fresh place and fresh start would help me move forward.
This year my mental health has just gone downhill completely. I spend most of my days crying because it's all getting on top of me and I have nobody to talk to about any of it. I still have the occasional good day where I feel normal, even happy but it doesn't balance out anymore.
I'm overweight and so signed up to a PAYG gym, heard some girls laughing got paranoid and had to leave, haven't gone back yet. I had a good day and the weather was nice so went for a long walk, my hands puffed up and some guys jeered at me as they passed in their car, started crying whilst walking, felt stupid so went to buy some comfort food and came home.
Having problems with power company (posted in chat about it) and even though i've been referred to a proper people with CAB and am waiting to hear back from them I can't stop thinking about it and getting stressed.
I get housing benefit and it gets paid to me to pay to my letting people. I messed up somewhere along the line and missed one month's rent. I fully accepted responsibility for this when they spoke to me about it a couple months ago. We agreed i'd pay a little extra each month (They know i'm on benefits and can't afford much) but I've now had a letter demanding the whole lot and that they've taken what I owe out of my deposit so they repayment is going in to paying back my deposit not my rent. I'm so scared that they'll just evict me when my tenancy is up and i'll end up homeless and i'm too scared of getting confused to call them and try to fix it somehow.
I have a cheap sofabed from ikea, wooden thing with a hard futon matress and it's just easier for me to leave it in bed form as I never have visitors, moved it recently as I could smell something musty and found damp on the wall that looks like it's attached itself to the futon and so now i'm sleeping on a matress that has damp on it. I looked around and have found a couple other areas of the flat that have damp/black mould type stuff. I don't know how you fix it and because of the above i'm too scared to ring the letting agents. I know I should but the thought of calling them brings on a panic attack and I start crying again.
There are other things going on too but those are causing me the most stress. After spending yet another day in floods of tears I made an emergency appointment for yesterday and went to see my Dr. This is the first time since moving up here that i've seen anyone about my mental health problems as I was trying so hard so act like I was fine. I got called into his room and pretty much burst into tears. He hadn't looked at my notes as I had to explain i've been on ADs before and have had depression and anxiety for years. I tried explaining that I couldn't cope and he gave me a new prescription for Sertraline and a number to call for lifelinq to get counselling.
I asked if he could refer me to SAMH or GAMH and he said that the Doctor Surgery doesn't do referals. I called SAMH when I got home and the woman on the phone said I have to be referred by my GP or social worker, they don't accept anything else. I don't have a social worker. I've never had a social worker. I don't know how to deal with everything that's going on and even thinking about starting off small has me in tears. I'm angry at myself for not being able to do these things and for getting into such a mess. I hate myself for needing help and I hate that it feels like when i'm trying to get help i'm just given a bunch of pills and told to go away.
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Can't cope any more.
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TeaInGlasgow · 27/06/2015 21:06
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