i had some mh issues in past but ive done something that i cant go back on. ive really messed my life up and a lot of other peoples too. i cant talk about it but its bad. tonight my dh hit me. i deserved it and ive done something terrible. he broke things in the house. i am supposed to be at work tomorrow. i have no where to sleep and havent had for a few weeks.
dh and i are spitting up because of me. i have no one left. my children are gone. my friends are being supportive but tonight dh told me they are only pretending and they think im reckless and stupid.
i came off my ADs a month ago and i should not have done. i tried to go back on them but they just make me physically sick.
all week ive been asking for signs for what to do. signs from who i dont know but my sister died and i felt like she was sending me messages - yes i know how nuts this sounds.
tonight i feel like ive just had enough.
i have lost everything. everything. i feel numb and tired and i dont want to carry on this way. i would not make any attempt on my life that would fail - not sure that tablets are a good way anyway.
i dont sleep normally but its worse now. things have been ok sort of for a few days but i realise they will never be ok for me again.
i dont have anything left. i will be starting again with nothing and no one. its not worth it. im happy in my own company and if i could just go and live on a desert island i would but ive hurt too many people and i cant put it right.
i feel agony every minute of every day. but i look alright. and i act alright. i cant get any peace, not at home, not at work and not in sleep. i will be taking sleeping tablets tonight because i physically need to sleep, im exhausted and im supposed to be going to work. if i dont go i will just be stuck here with my own thoughts.
i will not go to gp and i will not talk to anyone about this so i am on my own working this out. dont suggest it please. ive gone past that. i will either get through this or i wont.
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i can and am happy to go back on the sertraline i was on but its just getting past the first few weeks of nausea - i cant work while i get past that bit - i shouldnt have come off them - ive been on them for about 3 years and only when i came off them did my life fall to pieces, which is typically good timing where im concerned.
i have some time accrued to take so if i get enough time off will go back on the ADs.
they worked for me really well and im not keen to take anything different - but i just cant work and get through the initial side effects - also things very hectic at home and having to do lots of work in the house as it is going on market shortly.
cant afford time off any of these things to lay doing nothing while feeling sick and dizzy.
had a good cry and feel a little better now. but need to sleep, am exhausted.