I am 30. I spent Christmas alone as my family can't be arsed with me any longer because I'm so feeble, I have severe depression and a long term illness that flared up and made me very unwell, including falling and knocking myself out on Monday and needing 2 stitches in the back of my head. A family member did call on Christmas Day to ask if I was ok. It's not their fault they're reluctant to engage with me, it is because I have nothing to offer anyone. I feel like an alien, I don't know how to converse about normal life things because I have had my throat stamped on so much I just lie paralysed watching the world go by.
It's been a very lonely week, and am realising today that there is nothing to look forward to. Nothing can ever change.
I have no job after getting fired last month. All of my doctors do not think I am fit to work full time at the moment and I have to agree. But I'm also poor and have no way out. I will look for a part time job now in January but I will still just be scraping along, no security, no way of saving a penny, no way of building a better financial future.
I live in a houseshare and find not having my own space a massive strain this last while. I will never be able to afford to have my own rented place, let alone buy. I would love a pet for a companion and can't have this as per landlord's rules.
I have an attachment disorder which means I probably will be on my own for the rest of my life. What is the point. I'd love to be a mum, have a family, but it's not going to happen. I'm just going to be on my own in pain forever with no respite, until the time I finally fall and bang my head and it's over, instead of needing stitches.
Very suicidal tonight in a weird, strange way. I feel like I should kill myself because there is no other road to try, and the thought of another whole year of shit and pain has me in tears and gulping down wine. But it isn't fair. I shouldn't have to kill myself as the best option, there should be another way. I just can't find it.
Please don't tell me to move from London. It has taken years of fighting and pushing and fighting to build the medical team around me that I have now (including a psychiatrist I trust, and a psychologist who has helped me a lot) who could hopefully keep me able-bodied for as long as possible. Living in other parts of the UK I had nowhere near the care I had I have an appointment with different specialists once a week on average.
I don't know what to do, there is nothing I can do. Please help me. I can't stop thinking that suicide is the best choice. Not going to actually do anything, but oh god the pain from everything is ripping me in two.
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DevastatedDecember · 27/12/2014 21:07
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