Pretty much sums it up .. Dh is out of work and has been for 18 months. We had savings and mortgage overpayment to get us through 3 months, but then ran out of money. I earn between 400 and 800 per month, depending on work load (self employed), although at this time of year usually closer to 400. Dh claiming JSA, but only gets a little towards mortgage and council tax, but no money, and we get CTC and child benefit. We also have a lot of debt from previous employment problems.
I have a history of depression and am now taking ADs. They have helped a little, but I think my main problem now is our situation and things won't improve until we are financially more stable. Dh has had a few interviews this week and has a few next week, we are hoping he'll be offered a job from one of them.
Sorry for rambling on. What I'd like advice on is that I (we) are comfort eating like mad I have no willpower at all. I used to buy only healthy food, but then when we were getting really down we',d go and buy junky stuff which was too expensive. Now I buy our junk with our weekly shop at aldi, making it much cheaper, but also too easy to overeat when the food is in the house.
Please don't tell me to pull myself together, if I could do that I wouldn't be asking for help.
We are still spending too much on for. I can do our normal weekly shop for £50, but somehow am spending too much still.
It's not just food . Dd12 is rapidly growing out of her clothes and shoes and I keep having to buy new stuff, although I mainly buy on ebay. None of my clothes fit, as I've put on over a stone, so I've also bought stuff for me on eBay . It's a bit like retail therapy/ shopping addiction, although in small amounts, but still exceeding what we can afford.
I feel pathetic. Dh is no help, he's in the same frame of mind. I feel like life is fairly hopeless, we will never be out of doubt. I am a terrible worrier and lie awake at night, worrying about our life and our future.
I have sold everything I can apart from stuff that just won't sell. I know how to cut costs, shop around for car insurance, broadband, mobile etc. What I can't manage is to stop eating the snacks.
Anyone felt like this and have any advice?
Please don't judge, I already feel like a total failure
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Depressed, comfort eating, spending too much on food, help!
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imalostcause · 08/11/2014 00:08
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