Hi everyone, any advice here would be much appreciated and very helpful. Long explanation - I'm sorry!
Have been what you'd describe as a 'worrier' all of my life, even as a child but never really anything that caused a great deal of disruption to my life.
In the last couple of years though my worrying has become something more both in its intensity and level of disruption.
I have constant low level anxiety, which I manage to cope fairly well with but it is punctuated with periods of crippling anxiety which I feel I'm increasingly unable to deal with. I've never been great with change or things I don't fully understand, and quite often something like this acts as a trigger to a period of high anxiety. I obsess over whatever it is. My last 'obsession' was our first electricity bill in our new house, was convinced it was going to be extortionate and out of our ability to pay. My mind was filled with worry about this bloody bill for weeks and weeks for no real reason other than I was paying quarterly for the first time.
When highly anxious I find it massively difficult to concentrate on anything (a problem at the moment as I am trying to plough through a masters full time.) A similar period before Christmas just went on forever and began to take a physical toll, I completely lost my appetite, got migraines far more regularly, was completely knackered all the time and began to look really ill. At Christmas family commented on how much weight I had lost with some concern. Now I realise I was probably depressed again; I had absolutely no motivation to do anything (avoided going in to tutorials a couple of times saying I was ill because I simply could not face getting out of bed), no appetite, no self esteem - hated myself - thought I was useless and stupid and why couldn't I cope when other people could, absolutely nothing resembling a sex drive. I became a bit of a recluse.
A number of my anxieties are social - I'm not good around drunks, big crowds, people I don't know, sometimes people I do know. I've had panic attacks about going to parties where I know everyone there in the past. I also have a horrendous fixation about certain members of my family dying; for years certain things regarding elderly ladies have brought on panics or hysterics about my Nan (94) dying - I remember this happening when I was a child, so this is nothing new. More recently, as my parents have hit 60 I've started having similar reactions about them. I know that death of a loved one is bound to make you upset, but I feel this is beyond that. Its horrible and hits me at night time, and I just don't sleep then.
Have finally decided (in a relatively good period) that enough is enough and I have to go talk to someone - firstly because I don't want to have to cope with it any more but also as that I can be absolute hell to live with, and I don't feel its fair to inflict that upon DP. My DM has similar issues to me and has never sought help and my DF just got on with it and took it, something which endlessly frustrated me as a teenager - I realised I was being a hypocrite but building the courage was hard. Also would like the doctor to be aware as I worry about having a bad spell at this work heavy end of my course - feel it would stand me in better stead should I need to inform tutors etc.
So, after that horribly long explanation - is the doctor going to be able to suggest anything useful, and how best I approach an appointment without sounding like the rambling fool I seem to be in this post?
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Advice on going to GP RE: anxiety/possible depression
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MrsGoose0 · 01/03/2014 20:47
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