I'm managing really well, my depression is mild and is the result of a recent life event. I've had therapy, I just can't sleep. GP today however, yes a locum but I don't have a particular GP that I see regularly, wouldn't give me a second prescription. Am I being unreasonable? I was furious. I did argue the toss and get a two week supply. All I'm taking is an antihistamine, nothing more heavy weight. what do you think, should I keep arguing or give in and not ask for more?
Thanks for responding NoStalker, she said it was better to treat the cause via therapy. Things is, I'm a professional in that side of things and know all there is to know, I teach, supervise, manage, in that side of things. AND I've had loads of therapy. This is a result of a tragic life event that I'm struggle to come to terms with and, truthfully, only time will heal. Therapy hasn't and won't shift it, so more therapy, of a lesser calibre won't touch the sides. She was unwilling to acknowledge my knowledge in the area. I was so frustrated with her!
Sounds very frustrating yes. It sounds like you know your situation, whereas she was just talking from a general point of view. Is there anyone else in the surgery who you think would be of more help?
My GP stopped prescribing me sleeping tablets in one point, but that was a totally different situation, I had been on them for quite a while, and I could see their point. In general I also think it's great to recommend treating the causes of depression/anxiety rather than just pushing pills, but obviously sometimes you just need that medical help to get over something that can't be changed.
Thank you for your very thoughtful reply Nostalker. I'm feeling calmer now. There are people I can talk to, including other GPs. I think I partly over reacted at the time because, as you say, she was following a textbook, and as for me, I'd had a few weeks of sleep and became stressed at the thought that I had to return to not sleeping. I'm doing my best to avoid sick leave. It's just all so frustrating.
There is an otc sleep tablet I have which is essentially an antihistamine called Promethazine. Six pounds buys you at least 30 tablets. It's a mild sedative too. The only downside for me is that I am very dopey the next day if I use it. But when I'm in an episode or at risk I will suffer the dopyness happily! I only use them when necessary as I don't want to be dependent on these kinds of things.
I hear you. However, I took sleeping tablets on prescription for so long a few years ago that they stopped working. So did not help long term. Did not get offered therapy so had to learn how to sleep for me. Best thing I learnt to do was: simple routine - in bed roughly same time each night and made sure got up each morning if I had nap in day my sleep at night was worse, so however tired I was to be awake all day no screen time or heavy food late at night used puzzles/sudoko type things to switch brain off at night MAIN THING = to accept that sometimes I do not sleep and to accept it and not stress about it. More I stressed worse I was. Sometimes things happen that mean sleep is not ideal length or quality. But on nights I slept well I told myself I was "banking extra hours for the bad nights" and nights I had little sleep I managed to avoid stressing about it and curled up with a simple book/magazine to pass the time.
The dr's agreed my sleep was not good but when taking tablets I was not sleeping as they stopped working. So I stopped tablets. Months later I was allowed 2-4 sleeping tablets a month, so if I have a bad week or 2 I use them to get a few nights good sleep. That works for me. Could you use the tablets you have been prescribed like that? Not every day, but a few each week to eek them out?
Sometimes life is tough, sadly. And I agree more therapy does not always help - it cannot take away grief, stress, job losses etc.