My 11yo has been self harming for 4 yrs on and off (before then he use to make himself sick). Mainly cuts, we tried to get help via doctor to CAHM but due to funding, we only got to see them last year (after he started hanging himself) and they signed us off after our first visit. Leaving us to dealing with the school counsellor, who he sees irregularly. He does not like to talk, so not sure if this helps. He has been ok for about 6 months, but at the beginning of the week we noticed cuts again. We have tried talking about it, but he shuts down and get upset. His counsellor is not in school this week, so today I have let him off, as I can see he is getting very down. I am waiting a call back from the head.
Can anyone please give me advice on how best I can help him.
Or recommend any good books, to help me understand, and therefore be able to support him into healthier ways to expressed himself.
Or even a book that is suitable for him!
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Help!!! How do I help my 11yo who self harms!
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AngryBuddha · 14/11/2013 10:37
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