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How has your mental health affected your career?

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SkinnedAlive Tue 06-Aug-13 04:58:58

Yes, me too sad I left my first career as I didn't like it and eventually hit a brick wall, having forced myself to keep going for over 10 years. I did get the CBT, therapy etc I needed and started a second career which I loved. However with the recession and my inability to get a loan, I am left with half a degree and no way of finishing. Meanwhile I can't get back into my first career as I took too long out. If I could go back to this part time I could manage the depression - or full time on the basis I could earn enough after a year or two to finish my degree. Then I hope I could live happily ever after doing something I love.

I am now left with unskilled work on minimum wage if I am lucky. I have had to resign from a minimum wage job (as a skivvy) as it was close to 12 hours a day and I was being bullied. One day, again, I just hit that brick wall and couldn't go back in.

My big worry is I will never be fit to work full time in a job I dislike (and the only jobs I can get now are minimum wage locked up in an office (which I hate)). I find when I work full time doign things I don't like the stress means all I do is work and sleep and have no fun/social life whatsoever. Living like this can't be done indefinately so eventually I crack up. Also most minimum wage jobs don't give sick pay, and if I take any days off then I can't pay my rent and buy food - which is a huge worry and makes me more stressed - a real vicious cycle.

bassetfeet Mon 05-Aug-13 21:48:41

Yes sadly . I had to leave for my health and sanity ....and family .
Just couldnt sustain the workload and pressure anymore . Nothing left to give and pretty broken by the end .

Cheeseatmidnight Mon 05-Aug-13 20:10:40

Yes - I just couldn't go in on some days so was disciplined over attendance and always felt like I was playing catch up

HoopHopes Wed 31-Jul-13 14:59:10

A diagnosis of bpd ended my career as I was seen as high risk etc and unstable!! Had a career when just had depression as diagnosis.

Now I have a job if that makes sense. Work part time to help keep well which is good.

Mirages Wed 31-Jul-13 14:57:47

Yes! It ruined my academic career. I was very ill too long. I changed to industry and did ok until I got ill again. I do feel bitter sometimes.

nenevomito Wed 31-Jul-13 14:19:52

I am lucky in that I've managed to hold down a career despite having bipolar.

When I was younger, I went through 4 jobs in quick succession, being signed off sick at the end of each one due to depression or hypomania. Luckily I had a long period of stability which meant I was able to settle into a career and give it a good go.

I've been very lucky in my current job that despite having almost a year off sick in total over the last 5 years, they are supportive. It's been a struggle financially at times, but I've made it through. Part of it is being able to perform very well when I'm stable.

Its bloody hard work though. Sometimes I can barely drag myself out of bed, but its only by keeping going each day, no matter how I am feeling, that I can keep it up.

superstarheartbreaker Tue 30-Jul-13 21:56:40

Getting my career on top form would also be great, as would fostering positive relations with colleagues. It does worry me that my colleagues with find out how ill I get.

superstarheartbreaker Tue 30-Jul-13 21:53:47

Hi all. I am diagnosed as bipolar but I suspect I have bpd and mabe post traumatic stress disorder as a result of abuse. This has resulted in several ruined careers.
When I finally got over the abuse (or so I thought) my boderline pd manifested in me falling out with colleagues, paranoia and generally getting too involved and upset by politics. I can't wait to get treatment and/or my life back!

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