I'm a very longstanding member but need a little anonymity for this.
I've got Borderline Personality Disorder, diagnosed about 5 years ago. It stems from a very troubled relationship with my mother who abandoned our family when I was in my early teens.
I've suffered depression since age 17, had many interventions including inpatient ECT, 5 different antidepressants, 2 different antipsychotics, group therapy, individual CBT, counselling, psychotherapy, specialised therapy for BPD. I've made 3 serious suicide attempts, one of which put me in intensive care for 4 days.
I've 3 children from early teens down, have been in a stable marriage for 18 years (the only part of the bpd diagnosis that I don't fit!!). But I just seem to feel that I'm slipping out of control. I've always had bother with addictive behaviour, but in the last month my drinking has spiralled out of control. I have a problem with my nerves (and if you recognise this, please don't out me!) but have avoided going to hospital for the last 4 months (I'm supposed to get treatment 4 weekly) as hospital terrifies me and I can't face it - but it's not good for me and I've not told my husband.
We had a massive fight this morning and now I'm sitting crying in the bedroom and I've pushed the drawers against the door - I can't face anyone. Which is crap because he loves me so much and would do anything for me.
I'm secretly scared I need hospital treatment. I'm genuinely phobic of hospitals, when I do manage to go for my treatment they always comment on my pulse and blood pressure!
I don't know what to do. I'm not suicidal yet, but I'm frightened its going that way again. I know my children need me. I know I can't opt out, that it would be awful and selfish and unforgivable.
I just wish someone understood just how painful an awful it is to be me.
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Please help - I think I'm having a breakdown.
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