I'm having a bad time at the moment - was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in September. I'm dealing with childhood emotional abuse through weekly psychotherapy. GP offered me ADs but haven't taken them, don't want to.
So far I have only needed half a day off work when it all got too much but I am off today and tomorrow as I just can't cope with work right now. I have told my immediate line manager and she has been extremely supportive. I was in a meeting yesterday (really bad day) and quite a few people asked me if I was ok as I was obviously looking awful. A couple of people went further with 'what can I do to make you smile?' and 'what can we do to cheer her up?' I'm sure they meant well but I just wanted to bellow at them all to fuck off and leave me alone. I know when I go back to work there will be loads of 'are you feeling better?' comments and I'm dreading it already.
I'm thinking of telling a few colleagues what's going on with me - not loads of graphic detail but just enough to they know to back off sometimes and not hassle me with comments about cheering up. Is this a good idea? In my personal life, I have told DP and a few close friends, no-one else. I know a lot of people have no experience of depression and don't get it at all so I'm worried it would do more harm than good. Would be useful to hear other people's thoughts/experiences
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Depression - do you tell people or not?
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Lottapianos · 20/11/2012 08:43
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