Ive asked for advice regarding my work before and need to ask for more now hopefully no one minds?
Basically im 6 months pregnant and having problems with work related stress.
In the last 3 years I?ve had no end of issues with my work- false allegations of bullying put in against me during the lowest point of my life in which I was being diagnosed with a life changing illness which the people putting in the allegations knew about, people gossiping about my illness saying I had made the whole thing up, being excluded from rest of office.
Anyway after meeting after meeting with HR, occ health, my managers the atmosphere in the office is still bad, mostly through me at this point ? I cannot forgive and forget I still hold what happened to me against the people who did it and although professionally we are able to get on with work everything that?s happened still upsets me and stresses me out.
I?m constantly on edge of everything I say to people and I?m left out socially as I cant mix with people the way I used to, there are new starters in the office that I know I would get on with but I cant bring myself to talk to them.
I?m really upset I should have left before we tried for a baby and blame myself for being in this position now but here I am. I?m in tears about work while I?m here and at home thinking about it- I?m not sure whether its best to go on sick leave now or what to do especially as there is concerns over my blood pressure so I?m trying not to get too stressed being here depresses me so much its awful
Any advice would be helpful as i feel like they've finally broken me
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advice needed work related stress during pregnacy please help
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Natnat29 · 16/10/2012 12:05
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