I have no experience or knowledge of mental illness so I really could do with some guidance.
I hate myself. I can't stand to see myself in the mirror or to read anything I've written down. I can't imagine why anybody else would like me or want to spend time with me. I'm uber critical not only of myself but also of my dh and just recently, very grumpy with my 3yo dd - which makes me hate myself even more for being a bad mum.
I am 3stones overweight but have started slimming world recently. My weight is partly why I hate looking in the mirror.
I have a 4 month old baby who I adore but age is very clingy so I rarely get time to myself, plus the demands of my 3yo, who I also adore but seem to be shouting at her a lot lately. My recent pregnancy was very difficult - the baby had lots of problems in utero and then was born prematurely, so that was a very stressful time. (But she is absolutely fine now - I should be happy, no?) I also suffered quite severe SPD during the pregnancy and I still get quite a lot of pain and stiffness from that now.
My marriage isn't as solid as it should be. We have money worries (although we are in control of the situation at the moment). I do worry that our house is too small and not in the best situation for bringing up children. I would like to find a 'home for life' but our financial situation leaves us where we are.
My biggest issue with home life is DH's drinking - he is dependent on alcohol and cannot manage a single evening without a bottle of wine. This isn't a new situation, it's been ongoing for years.
I recently faced up to an unpleasant part of my past (sexually groomed as an adolescent) but I haven't made a big deal out of it. Haven't sought counselling.
I have lovely friends, beautiful children, a supportive family (none of whom live nearby) and I should be happy.
But I really don't like myself. I think I've always felt a bit like this - often comparing myself unfavourably to others for example - but recently I've felt much stronger, more frequent bouts of self-hatred.
I don't want to go to my GP.
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bushymcbush · 23/07/2012 13:03
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