I used to cut myself 20ish years ago (when I was in my teens/20s) and one of them is a scar on my wrist where I'd cut the tendons and it was opened up more to sort them out, making it quite noticeable.
DD asked about some scars I've got on my leg when she was little and I just told her they were because of an accident and she didn't ask anything else.
Even though I don't really notice them any more, I still keep my wrist turned towards me just out of habit more than anything, but I think DD might have seen it today. After I thought she had, she told me about one of her teachers who'd badly gashed her arm on her honeymoon and had a scar from it.
I got the feeling she was gearing up to ask me about mine, and I was rooting around for what I should answer with. She's into Jacqueline Wilson and has mentioned about a mum who cuts her wrists which we talked about a bit, so she could plausibly take a guess at what mine is.
I don't want to tell her what I did though, knowing her as I do I could tell her and tell her I'm not the same very ill person I was then, but she'd still fret about it.
I'm a bit sad (at the same time as being relived) at why didn't she feel she could ask.
I know I could have got it all wrong and she hadn't noticed at all and it was just a coincidence saying about her teacher, but this is a question I've been dreading being asked for ages and have kind of avoided thinking about how I should answer.
She knows I have/have had mental health issues, but only that it's mostly OCD, does anyone have any thoughts on how I should tackle it if she does bring it up without freaking her out?
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What to say if DD (11) asks about the scar on my wrist?
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AgentZigzag · 27/05/2012 02:14
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