Hi all. I've got a diagnosis of bipolar type II which kind of fits and I think I have PMDD as well (yeah I am really a barrel of laughs...for half the month at least).
Recently however I've been thinking about some longstanding oddnesses of mine which cause a lot of trouble in my life but don't seem to be entirely attributable to the depression or PMS. I'll let you know the main symptoms, see what you think.
- constantly going into trances. Can suddenly stop doing whatever I am doing and stare out of window for 20 minutes or so losing all sense of time except for a general sort of anxious buzz. I always jump when interrupted by someone else.
- general chaos, as find it extremely hard to get the sense of time others have. I think I am on track to get where I need to go only to find that a mysterious 10 minutes have vanished and I am now late. This makes life a lot more stressful as I find that if I actually have to get anywhere eg to work or kids to school on time I have to leave an extra half an hour 'faffing time'. (I know this sounds normal but really it isn't. I just can never seem to coordinate all the small tasks that need to be done before leaving the house. I also get extremely stresssed and snappy doing it).
-general incredible level of absent-mindedness. Cannot seem to leave a room, house, car, with all important items- eg coat and bag, or coat bag and important folder. It's got to the level that I have to stop and do a sort of visual check every time I leave anywhere. People such as colleagues look at me as if I am crazy when I do this. Am constantly having important files returned to me by students and colleagues etc.
-If I am talking, I carry on far too much and tend to lose track of whatever else I need to be doing in the process. Eg (shameful) I walked out of a cafe the other day without paying because I was chatting to someone in there and forgot I hadn't had the bill. This kind of thing is quite common.
-trichotillomania (compulsive hair pulling)- a relaly vile habit which ties in with my anxious trance states. I can stare into space for hours while a pile of hair gathers next to me (sorry to have to describe it! I know it's a vile habit). Bald patches on back of head as result of this :(. Not a good look.
-- am an academic but during periods of depression unable to produce much at all, and career suffering due to this. Recently have found that I can hardly read anything that requires concentrated attention, but which is not grabbing my personal interest- I try, but find I am zoning out within 30 seconds. My brain genuinely shuts down. It's something beyond boredom. This makes exam marking incredibly difficult. And yet if a book interests me, I'll devour it (I read Barbara Ehrenreich's Smile or Die in 2 hours this morning, for intstance).
--general problems with time. Can be aware at 11 am that today is Saturday but then lose track of what day it is, sequence of the week by 1pm. I can have a conversation with a friend about the party I am taking the kids to at 2pm, and then at 3.30 pm realise I forgot to take them. Feel lost in time an awful lot. It's a big effort for me to visualise the day's events ahead especially if they are oneoffs. I am constantly missing school events etc cos I don't digest the information properly. If an event becomes routine eg teaching a certain subject at 9 am Weds and Thurs that is fine, but I will just turn up anyway to an empty classroom if there is any sort of preannounced interruption to the usual timetable which everyone else picks up on.
On the whole I find I am constantly lost or discombobulated in this world. Head full of fog and big ideas which only occasionally make it on to paper. yet if something grabs my interest I will concentrate for hours and forget to eat etc.
Bloody hell that's long. If you've persisted, thankyou.
Am I just idiosyncratically bonkers, or does anyone think I should take my self-diagnosis to a GP and ask for a referral?