DP doesn't live with us but used to come over 4-5 times a week.
He became depressed and disappeared 3 months ago - I heard almost nothing from him for 2 months. He's back now - we've spent some time together & things were ok. Good, even. But his depression is getting worse.
I don't know how to support him. He can barely speak. He said he couldn't drive today so I haven't seen him. He says he misses me.
He's on ADs (although they don't seem to be helping) and is having counselling now. We've also been to Relate for an initial assesment and are waiting for an appointment. I just don't know what to do. I am not sure Relate is even relevant til he's feeling better. But I feel very alone and sad and a little resentful
I have a history of depression myself (bad - resulting in being hospitalised) so I do understand but he's so different to how I was when I was depressed and I'm finding it hard to be patient. I need to vent. Sorry.
I have a stressful job, DS and poor health. I want to help DP but I am struggling.
What do I do?
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Please help me with depressed DP - I'm struggling
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OneManBand · 05/09/2011 21:13
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