that's it really.
I'm 35. Married, 2 beautiful kids. Everyone is healthy. DH and I both have good jobs. No money worries. Everything should be just perfect.
Except I can't be happy. No matter how hard I try to rationalise how good everything is; no matter how guilty I feel about feeling unhappy when so many people have real problems, i can't stop thinking that my life is over and that nothing good is ever going to happen to me again. That all my happiness quota is behind me.
I hate my job; I hate where I live; I am sure i love my husband, but right now all I can think of is that he's not the right person for me, and I resent everything he does and doesn't do; I love my kids, but I can't express it, and I can't have patience with them. I have left all my friends behind, and can't seem to be able to make new ones. I'm overweight, getting fatter, not bothering with clothes or makeup anymore. I'm ugly.
Repeat all of the above for another 1, 5,10, 20, 30 years, and all I can do is cry. I cry all the time. I'm angry all the time- blinding rage that I can barely keep in check. I'm afraid I'll hit my kids one day. I'm anxious, and panicky, and I can't remember the last time I had fun. I want to be alone all the time and then when i'm alone I die of loneliness.
I hate myself for feeling like this. I want to pull myself together, go on a diet, see someone, take some pills, whatever, do soemthing to feel better about myself; then I think to myself, what's the point, it won't change anything anyway; you'll still be here, in this place, in this job, in this family. In myself.
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I feel my life is over
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Isitjustmeoriseverythingshit · 21/08/2011 17:58
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