I have a DD 16 mo. (a terrible sleeper and although better than she was, I am still up a few times a night, I am getting a bit more sleep which has improved things)
Although I am bored and miss my "old life" sometimes, when the opportunity to go out arises, I don't want to go in case DD wakes and I will be tired the next day. i also cant face the planning of getting ready etc. I have only been out in the evening twice since she was born.
Same with going out for the day, DD will only sleep in her cot so I cant face the stress of her not sleeping and what we need to do in case scenarios.
I never look forawrd to going out and rarely enjoy it. It all feel like too much stress and effort.
DP is cheesed off and no one understands. Is it PND? I suffer from anxiety but not really severly atm. I was on valium for a bit which calmed me down.
I dont know if I am just a miserable boring cow, destined to always feel like this or if there is something wrong.
DP feel like a am a fraud....esp as I no longer drink.
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Why is there no pleasing me...am I odd??
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LittlebearH · 17/06/2011 21:02
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