I've suffered from depression on and off since the age of 17, I have good spells that can last months and I feel great/happy content with everything and then I have weeks like the one i'm having at the moment.
I have a lovely home great husband gorgeous DC and I honestly feel that I could walk away from it all and not look back. I went for a walk to the shop to get some milk yesterday and left the DC with DH and as I walked out of the door I thought "Shall I just go" they would all be better off without me. I'm impatient with the DC and seem to do nothing but shout at them all the time, they are 3 and 5 of course they want mummy and i'm being unrealistic to expect them to just leave me alone, but thats what I want to be left alone. I have no family nearby to have the DC for a while and DH works long unsociable hours so i'm on my own with the DC a lot.
DH is as understanding and supportive as he can be but I must be hell to live with. I just need peace, I feel like there's this scream building up inside me and the pressure is driving me mad. I want to curl up in the dark and not have to talk to anyone but feel like everyone wants a piece of me and i'm finding it so hard to cope with the day to day demands that 2 small children make.
Before I had the DC I was on medication and I know that I need to get back onto something but i'm terrified to go and tell a doctor what i've just told you because they'll think i'm an unfit mother, I think i'm unfit at the moment so why wouldn't they.
I know i'm not the only parent that feels like this I just need to find a way to cope and get through it and maybe next week i'll feel better again but until that happens I don't know what to do with myself:(
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Really struggling and hate myself for feeling like this :(
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Narketta · 15/05/2011 10:44
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