Madmouse - thank you for your concern, and others on this thread too. I think I've probably already said that I have been trying to recover from major episode of depression since discharge from psych ward last July. My 2nd episode - 1st one in 1995 following sudden death of my dearest friend and I still miss her. Was 3 months on psych ward then but made full recovery and back at work within 1 month of discharge.
I had 7 good weeks after discharge but since mid Sept last year have been having blips, and am on day 9 of this one, but it seems so much worse in intensity. Mornings are dreadful and once I've forced myself out of bed about 11 ish I shower etc and then cry for ages, and this last 3 days have just gone back to lie onbed under blanket, where I feel safe. Usually get a bit better in the afternoon and fair bit better by evening but I am then too tired and achey from the crying and anxiety that I have generated I can't enjoy it. I have more good days than bad (far more in reality) so know I am climbing the hill to recovery and when the good days come I feel like my old self. The more ups and downs I have though the more downhearted I get. I know that this is anti CBT but can't help the negative thoughts and suicidal ones coming in - though think it is ideation, rather than actually carrying out a plan to get rid of myself.
I have a lovely CPN and phoned her this a.m. but she must have had something more urgent as she didn't phone back. I have a caring and supportive partner but there are times when I know it is all getting him down and although he doesn't admit it I know and he has been a bit impatient this week. I have 4 very close women friends, but only 1 living very near and retired and I see her 4 or 5 times a week though I fear I am draining her too. I am in the West Midlands, my other close friend is in Bristol and the other 2 reasonably near but both working full time, though they e mail/text regularly and visit quite often. I am 67 and a g/mthr so don't have young children to care for and I don't know how so many young mums on here cope with A & D and babies to care for. I try to keep how I am feeling from my sons and dils because they all have their own families to worry about.
My conslt pysch is coming to see me on Monday but only as a follow up really and I think official discharge. When he came last Oct I was doing really well, but so many more blips since then. Also he is a man without any interpersonal skills whatsoever and has a very detached manner and worse still I am intimidated by him. I am currently on imipramine 150mg and 6mg diazepam a day. I am going to ask if upping the ADs or change in ADs might help but will not up the diazepam as know how addicitive this is.
I find it therapeutic to be on MN especially the MH threads because it does me good to think that I can help others, and gives me back a bit of myself, after 30 years in childrens services in LA SSD. Can't believe that I was once a competent professional woman - in a blip I feel worthless and lacking any motivation. I do try though and go to a yoga class and swim with my friend when I feel well enough.
Thank you so much madmouse for your offer of help - I notice that you offer this to others so much. The help comes from hearing that others are going through bad patches and supporting each other. I don't know your story madmouse, not sure if your illness is physical or emotional, but I know you are a lawyer in a Law Centre (thought they had all closed down, so good to know some of them have survived.)
Thanks again for your concern - I will keep posting and hoping for some good days to return.