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Crisis of confidence

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littletinkers Tue 09-Nov-10 21:30:41

I don't seem to have any confidence in my ability to be a good mother. This is so severe I get panicky and v stressed in situations where my parenting can be observed. I have 2 yr old twins so challenging anyhow. Today I had kady round for lunch who used to help me with kids when I had bad pnd. She is amazing with kids. I just felt so small and inadequate next to her. I don't know how to feel more confident. Everyone tells me kids are fine and lovely etc though twin a can be a handful. I interpret even the slightest thing someone does as a negative judgement on my parenting then spiral into a negative sort of paralysis. Any tips anyone?

MissTired Tue 09-Nov-10 21:46:03

are you on any medication? maybe a trip to the drs may help?? could you not be fully over the pnd? xxx

littletinkers Tue 09-Nov-10 21:48:48

On shed loads of medication. Probably more of a nervous breakdown than pnd alone. Have a history of anxiety and depression. Have had 2 serious episodes.

MissTired Tue 09-Nov-10 21:54:07

maybe if you talk to the gp they need to review your medication? do you have any practical support from anyone else? homestart?? you sound like a great mum, youre trying your best xx

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